My parents raised 6 kids on one salary. My husband and I can't afford one baby on 2.
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I would love to become a mother, but student loans, housing costs, and childcare expenses make having a baby feel impossible.
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The author and her husband can't afford to have a child.Courtesy of the authorMy husband works as a physical therapist and has $100,000 in student loans.I teach college courses through part-time jobs without maternity leave or benefits.Our monthly expenses leave little room for the costs of having a child.I always assumed I would have a big family, whether I wanted to or not. My mother was one of 12, my father was one of seven, and I was the oldest of six. I grew up stepping between bodies at crowded holiday gatherings and playing gigantic games of capture the flag with my aunts, uncles, and cousins. It was fun growing up with a lot of playmates, but more importantly, childbearing was framed as an essential part of our conservative Catholic identity. Motherhood was a sacrificial duty that would ensure my place in Heaven. I never considered whether this was what I wanted because I was supposed to live according to God's plan rather than my own.When I left the church, I thought I had…